Chapter 144 Spring Festival is coming
The first debut of Liang Lati Courtyard and the Widow of the Jia Family can be considered a victory!
The Jia family cried out that a wolf was coming, and this guy was even more cruel. She was also a widow with four children. The key point was that she had the ability to not say anything and could put down her face.

Can you, Jia Zhang, be so unreasonable? So can I.

Are you, Qin Huairu, pretending to be weak to gain sympathy? I don't need that at all. I will even show you how a widow can be strong.

I am a level 6 welder, what about you? None of them can fight, which is a dimensionality reduction attack on Qin Huairu.

Now that Liang Lati has arrived, everyone in the compound will definitely compare Liang Lati with Qin Huairu.

The same young, beautiful and charming age.

A person who works hard to learn skills and achieve self-sufficiency in order to change her living conditions is a modern version of Mu Guiying.

A cunning and cunning man who pretends to be weak and a ruthless mother-in-law are obviously superior.

It is not obvious now among Liang Lati's children, but they will be compared with each other in the future.

The result is definitely that Liang Latin will win and Qin Huairu will be completely defeated!!!

Liang Lati's admission to the hospital also weakened the status of the Jia family. In the past, many people felt sorry for the Jia family's plight, believing that life was not easy for an orphan and a widow.

But Liang Lati's style has given everyone a new definition of widows. The gap between widows is also very large. She is about the same age as Qin Huairu, but the gap is very large.

Liang Lati greeted everyone he saw politely, without any pretense or sympathy.

It is obvious that such an attitude is more likely to win the sympathy of women.

Qin Huairu's weakness and tears can win men's sympathy to a certain extent.

The key point is that she has a good figure, and her headlights and millstones are unique. Coupled with the sympathy of their own men, these women are bound to have some opinions.

There was only this one widow in the compound before, so she could only pretend not to see it. What people fear most is comparison.

Now with the arrival of a widow, the situation suddenly changed. Compared with Qin Huairu, Liang Lati was more likely to win the favor of everyone.

I sympathize with Qin Huairu. His family has suffered losses. Although they are not big each time, they can't stand the accumulation over time.

There is no need to sympathize with Liang Lati. His income is higher than many men and he should not bother to do such things as donating money.

After a long period of observation, it was discovered that Liang Lati's children were also very unusual.

Which of those kids is the sweetest one? They have won everyone's recognition and no one dislikes them.

Even the deaf old lady smiled in front of the children, called them "Madam" one by one, and received a lot of candies.

If we look at Bang Geng again, there is nothing we can say. He looks at people with squinting eyes.

When you see something, you want it. If you want it, at least call them uncle or aunt, okay? Just call them by their names, and if they don’t give it to you, you will throw a tantrum.

In the past, we only compared the children with the He family. The He family’s children had better family education because both parents were there.

Liang Lati's child is so sensible now. It's not because of the presence or absence of his parents. It's because Qin Huairu and Jia Zhangshi did not educate him well.

It seems that the top beam is crooked and the bottom beam is crooked. It is not the widow's fault, nor the living conditions, but entirely the adults' fault.

Children's education is of vital importance. A good education not only makes everyone like them, but the key is to prevent them from going astray.

Everyone believes that not only must children be well fed and grow up well, but their education must also keep up.

Don't underestimate the child because he is still young. He is very powerful.

A child's mind is still a blank sheet of paper. The key is how adults fill it up.

Now it seems that Liang Latin's portrayal of raising a child alone is very good.

On the other hand, the Qin family has been a failure so far.

Of course, no one will meddle in other people’s affairs. One’s own children are good, but other people’s wives are more fragrant.

If anyone interferes with the education of the Jia family's children, Jia Zhang will sit at your door and scold you.

Didn't you hear what Jia Zhang called Bang Geng? She kept calling him a golden grandson and a man who would become a high official in the future. Why don't you try to meddle in other people's business? I'll be surprised if she doesn't spit on you.

It is even more ridiculous to think that children will not commit crimes because they are young. Children already have the ability to act, and it is not impossible for them to do things like arson, theft, and even murder.

It is true that human nature is good at birth, but it also depends on the family education acquired. No matter how good a child is, he will grow up in a wrong way if he is spoiled, ignored or even indulged by his elders.

It is obvious that Banggeng has already developed this tendency, but the people in the Jia family are still unaware of it.

Every day he is my precious grandson and my precious son, the little master and little emperor of the Jia family.

There is no comparison between Xiaodang and Banggeng. Although Jia Zhang did not abuse him, she did not pay much attention to him either. All the delicious food was given to Banggeng.

The siheyuan is neither small nor big, they are all in the same compound and there are no secrets at all.

"Old Yi, how about we celebrate the New Year by ourselves this year? Just us and the old lady?"

The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and Yi Li is starting to worry. The Chinese New Year is supposed to be a very happy thing, but every year there are always some unexpected events.

"My dear, let's go to the Jia family this year! After all, Dongxu just passed away, and the orphans and widows can't have a good New Year. Let's help them if we can."

Of course Yi Zhonghai knew what his wife meant. She just wanted to have some peace and quiet during the New Year.

Yi Zhonghai didn't think so. He had set his sights on Qin Huairu, so he must play his role. Without their family, you are nothing, so he wanted Qin Huairu to be willing.

You can't celebrate the New Year, right? Let's celebrate together. As long as I, Yi Zhonghai, am here, there will be no problem.

It will happen gradually over a period of time, and then it will suddenly break off. I am not afraid that you, Qin Huairu, will not give in.

In the compound, besides yourself, do you, Qin Huairu, have anyone else to rely on?
"Hey, well, every year we celebrate together with the Jia family, I just served the dishes here, and before the second one is even on the table, Jia Zhang and Bang Geng have already wolfed it down.

It looked like he hadn’t eaten for a year, like a starving ghost reincarnated, so disgusting.

The old lady didn't even have dumplings to eat two years ago. What's the point of living like this? She was left hungry on New Year's Day.

It's better not to celebrate this year. I don't know what you are thinking. When Dongxu was around, we had to endure Zhang's attitude.

But now Dongxu is gone, what else can we count on from them? You're not counting on Banggeng, are you?
If this is the case, I still advise you to give up the idea in advance.

With the state of Bang Geng, can he provide for us in our old age? I don't believe it no matter what.

If the old lady knew that we were celebrating the New Year with the Jia family, she would definitely not come. Are we going to leave her alone to celebrate the New Year? She would be scolded to death by the people in the courtyard."

The resentment that Yi Li has towards the Jia family has accumulated to a great extent, is it about to reach a critical point?
"The child is still young now, he will change in the future, I will go talk to the old lady!
As for Jia Zhang, I will tell Qin Huairu and warn her.

If they are still determined not to change, we will no longer be responsible for their family in the future.

Let's celebrate the New Year happily and prepare more things. "

“As the saying goes, one can tell a person’s future from the time he was three years old. How can he be good in the future if he has Jia Zhang’s words and deeds?

I still want to adopt a child. Look at how many children there are in the orphanage. Can't we find someone who suits our taste? Why is he tied up in the Jia family and can't leave?"

Yi Li never figured out why Yi Zhonghai refused to adopt the child.

Logically speaking, the money and things invested in the Jia family should be enough to raise several children.

Now I have nothing. Not only have all my plans been in vain, but I also have to endure the wrath of others.

"Let me think about it again. You know my concerns."

Yi Zhonghai kept making excuses, trying to dissuade Yi Li from his idea.

"I know your concerns. I feel that adopting a child is much better than a stick terrier. At least you can educate him yourself since he is young. Are you still worried about not being able to educate him well?"

Yi Zhonghai still has some expectations now. He hopes that Qin Huairu will have a good fertility body and give him a son.

What a pity, although the wish is beautiful, it is Yi Zhonghai himself who cannot give birth.

Only Jia Zhang knew that Qin Huairu had an IUD, so Yi Zhonghai could only say that it was wishful thinking.

The deaf old lady had said long ago that people with age can become spirits, but unfortunately Yi Zhonghai was possessed by a demon. Even if he had not yet been possessed by a demon, he was not far from it.

He Yuzhu is no longer reliable, and Yi Zhonghai is also anxious. His biggest concern is retirement. After so many years of planning, the person he chose for retirement did not send him away, but he was the one who sent the person away.

What was going on? It seemed like God was playing a huge joke on Yi Zhonghai.

Yi Zhonghai wanted to gain something ready-made by using small favors, but unfortunately there are no such good things in the world, and the effort and reward are proportional.

Ho's
"Dad, let's go to my house to celebrate the New Year this year."

He Qian pestered He Yukai to play for a while, and then asked about the New Year.

He Yukai was seen holding his daughter on his lap, and using his other hand to play with her hair which had become messy due to her playing.

"Yes, girl, why don't you want to go?"

"Of course I want to go. I miss my aunt so much."

"You're missing your aunt's snacks, right?"

“Come here, both of you, and show me the boxing techniques that Grandpa Li taught me.

If the beating is good, each person will be given a small whip, if the beating is bad, nothing will be given."

"Dad (uncle), we fought well."

"Dad, I can, too. I can, too."

"Yes, Xiaojun can do it too. The three of you come together so I can test the results of the past six months."

To be honest, Old Man Li teaches very well. Even He Yukai may not be able to teach as well.

The key is to strengthen the body, but He Yukai doesn't know how to do it.

The so-called strengthening of the body is also known as foundation building, which is certainly not the foundation building for cultivating immortals.

To really practice martial arts, one has to wait until one is eight or nine years old, otherwise, it is easy to hurt your muscles and bones.

Everyone smiled as they watched the three little ones practicing in good shape. At this time, He Qian and Yu Shui also joined in and started practicing the Tai Chi taught by Cai Wenqing.

Not to mention that Yu Shui is already considered a minor master, his aptitude for practicing martial arts is not bad.

I have no problem with self-defense now. I have been practicing for several years and I am seeing initial results.

Just as they were playing, He Yuzhu came back.

"Brother, I sent Old Man Li five pounds of meat, ten pounds of white flour, braised beef, and some mutton offal as you requested, and invited him to go to Zhengyang Gate with me. He doesn't want to go, so let's leave it at that."

"Well, that's foreseeable. Even though we're partners, they don't come to our house for dinner except during festivals.

Just deliver the ingredients as usual. Old man Li has a bit of chivalrous pride, which I understand."

He Yukai thought of that stubborn old man, which was quite interesting.

“We will leave tomorrow after putting up the Spring Festival couplets, so go over early to help with the preparations.

Wow, there are five children in our family and three uncles, so it's really lively. And Uncle Guan is alone. I'll go and see him tomorrow. If it doesn't work, I'll invite Uncle Guan to come over as well.

That old man is really a treasure, he has done in-depth research on our traditional culture.

I have been studying for such a long time, and I feel that the more I learn, the more ignorant I become. He is my mentor and helpful friend."

"Okay, let's go there early tomorrow, so we don't get there too late and wonder what's going on here."

The family was tired of the things happening in this yard. It was always about trivial matters, which was disgusting.

There are also various calculations in the yard. Sometimes when living here, people are afraid that their children will be taught badly.

How can we grow up healthily without a good environment?
Now that Nan Yi and Liang Lati are here, He Yukai believes that Qin Huairu will definitely set her sights on Nan Yi because she sees that Nan Yi in the cafeteria is not married.

But Nan Yi and Liang Lati have already reached the stage of discussing marriage, and Qin Huairu is destined to return empty-handed.

The yard should be quiet for a while. Now the family members are keeping a close eye on He Yuzhu, mainly because they are afraid that Qin Huairu will get involved.

He Yuzhu never dared to show a good face to Qin Huairu. Even when Qin Huairu came forward to say hello, he only replied with one word and didn't dare to say more.

Once, Qin Huairu blocked his way and asked to become her disciple, which scared He Yuzhu.

He refused to do it no matter what, but because of this matter, he talked a little too much and was seen by Lou Xiao'e.

He was scolded a lot, and when he got home he was scolded by his elder brother and sister-in-law, and almost had a trial.

He Yuzhu is now afraid when he sees Qin Huairu. His elder brother and sister-in-law keep giving him long lectures, and he can't explain them. He is really scared of them.

Ever since Yu Li gave birth to a son and was warned by He Yukai, she has hardly paid any attention to Qin Huairu.

After showing a movie in the countryside, he would rush back to see his children.

It’s no wonder that Xu Damao loves his daughter Xu Nuan to the core.

Xu Nuan and He Xiao often play together. Oddly enough, they have a really good relationship.

Although he is still young, Xu Nuan will save any delicious food for He Xiao.

He Xiao was the same, always keeping mentioning that he wanted to save the good things for his sister Xiao Nuan.

Lou Xiao'e even said that if Xu Nuan had been like this since childhood, then she would be her daughter-in-law, so caring.

Of course, there are also He Bing, He Jun and a few others who follow his followers and sometimes even stir up trouble.

Several children didn’t want to play with Banggeng. I don’t know if it was an illusion, but the children didn’t like Banggeng either.

Adults didn't instill those things in us. After all, there aren't any bad things in the current Bangsang memes.

Although he is disliked, he has not evolved into a thief king. The conflicts among adults will involve children.

It shouldn't happen, after all, the children are innocent, but the kids just don't want to play with them.

Due to the difficult times, children were taught to eat any delicious food at home, and not to go out to the yard to eat even candy.

Nothing out of the ordinary happened. He Yukai even asked the children why they didn't want to play with Banggeng.
The answer I got was both laughable and sad.

If you just don’t like it, then you don’t like it. Why are there so many reasons?
He Yukai was choked and had to admit that what he said made sense.

There is no way to refute it. There are thousands of things in the world, there are not so many reasons.

The Siheyuan is more in line with He Yukai's ideas. It's nice to have some fun with the family gossip and occasional trouble from Jia Zhang.

Everyone is different. It is impossible for everyone to have a quiet wife, children and a warm bed. There will always be a few people who do not meet everyone's expectations, which is understandable.

It is also possible that He Yukai was overthinking it. After all, TV dramas are quite harmful and people always make malicious speculations.

The deaf old lady was very quiet during this period. She basically did not leave the room unless it was necessary. An aunt would bring her meals on time, and she basically did not go out of the front or back door.

Although she was greedy, she didn't do anything to overbearing people who ate meat.

I guess he's been dormant for a while. He's given a lot of advice to the old lady. He's become more shrewd as he gets older.

It is not difficult to see Yi Zhonghai's thoughts, and the deep pit of the Jia family is also obvious.

The deaf old lady did not feel sorry for Yi Zhonghai and even complained about his selfishness.

But after taking care of Yi Li for such a long time, she had long regarded Yi Li as her own daughter.

Fearing that the child would have a miserable old age, I suggested that they adopt one.

Yi Li also envies people who have children, but Yi Zhonghai is the family's financial source and the pillar of the family. She cannot force Yi Zhonghai to agree even if he disagrees.

On the one hand, an aunt always felt guilty for not giving birth to a child for Yi Zhonghai, so she indulged him.

But as time went on, especially after Dongxu's death, the Jia family became more and more excessive, and it was almost reaching the limit of Yi Li's tolerance.

Yan Bugui's family is preparing for Yan Jiecheng's marriage, but his scheming problem comes out again, and there is still a big gap between the family members.

He Yukai plans to find some time to have a good chat with Yan Bugui. Just based on the TV series, Yan Bugui's act of picking up garbage to subsidize He Yuzhu made He Yukai look up to him.

At least he is not an ungrateful person and doesn't want to see Yan Bugui spend his old age in misery.

When Yan Bugui's children were young, he had to scheme for a living; there was nothing he could do about it. But now that the children have grown up, it is wrong for him to still scheme.

Is it true that after calculating for so long, this habit can no longer be changed? It is not enough to talk about it in a proper way.

Now Yan Bugui is obsessed with scheming and cannot extricate himself.

This leads to children following suit, and each of them becomes lustful and calculating.

Parents are the best teachers for their children, and Yan Bugui should understand this. Isn't this the same as the fact that it is difficult for doctors to heal themselves?
In He Yukai's opinion, except for Yi Zhonghai and the Jia family, all other houses in the courtyard can be renovated.

Yi Zhonghai's obsession and mental illness is retirement care. The obstacle is that he does not want to invest his true heart, and wants to use small favors to achieve his goals, which is wishful thinking.

The nobleman in Yanbu was not a bad person, but because he had many children, the disaster caused him difficulties. He had enough food and clothing, but he did not expect that he would be harmed by poverty.

If you calculate for a long time, you will get used to it and it will become an obsession.

After Liu Haizhong became the captain of the training camp, he was very busy every day and kept He Yukai's warning in mind.

As long as he still has his official hat, Liu Haizhong will restrain himself because he knows that He Yukai is watching him.

After Liu Haizhong became the team leader, he inquired about some of the criteria for assessing cadres.

Finally, he paid the price of a meal at Quanjude and realized that He Yukai had not deceived him.

Family relationships and mass base are indeed important aspects to examine.

In the words of a certain leader, if you can't even figure out the little piece of land at home, how can you do your job well?

In view of this, I no longer sort my food, and I no longer hit my children. Out of sight, out of mind.

The child's education was carried out by Liu Qianshi. As a mother, she certainly would not beat him. At most, she would nag him constantly.

The Liu brothers felt like they were in a dream during this period.

The sounds of ghosts crying and wolves howling had not been heard in the compound for a long time. Everyone sighed that the Second Uncle was obviously different after becoming an official.

At least he won't beat the children for no reason, and he will become friendly when he meets them.

As long as Jia Zhang is still around, and as long as Qin Huairu can't change her mind about making money through illegal means, the Jia family is doomed.

The most important thing is its ungrateful nature, which makes people stay away from it.

It was a foregone conclusion that Jia Zhang would ruin three generations of his family.

If the two girls follow the example in the drama, they will definitely become selfish and private in the future. It’s scary to think about it.

Yi Zhonghai told Qin Huairu that they could celebrate the New Year together, but if Jia Zhangshi remained the same this year, they would never have any contact with each other again.

The deaf old lady also agreed to give the Jia family another chance. Yi Zhonghai had to persuade her until her lips were worn out before the deaf old lady reluctantly agreed.

Qin Huairu knew that she had to persuade Jia Zhangshi, so that she could at least celebrate the New Year with Yi Zhonghai's family and have a good meal of meat on New Year's Eve.

The meat from our own home can be saved and the children can have another meal with it in a few days.

Of course I would not refuse or miss such a good thing, even if it only comes once a year.

Jia Zhang agreed to let Qin Huairu eat with everyone at once, thinking, there is no regulation on the speed of eating, right?
The stick stems were automatically ignored by everyone. How much can a child eat?

Many people are deeply influenced by the fact that children are still young and neglect them, but sometimes, it is generally believed that the destructive power caused by children is no less than that of adults.

Being ignored may be the most terrifying thing. If a child turns into a demon, the threat to society will be far greater than that of an adult.

Children are fearless and will do whatever they want, but adults at least have concerns and will consider issues such as family, wife and children, other people's opinions, etc.

Children may make big mistakes but may not necessarily think they are wrong. They will only be afraid when punishment comes!
Banggeng is that spoiled child who has no fear in his heart and will become a cancer in the future.

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