Chapter 158: Children of the He Family (I)

He Yukai rode his bike home, and on the way he thought about what had happened during this period, and felt a little upset.

I studied the information given by Uncle Guan in detail and compared the theoretical knowledge I learned with my own collections.

Logically speaking, I should have gotten started, but my experiences during this period have made me doubt my abilities. Uncle Guan said that I had a good grasp of it, but the results were far from what I had imagined.

Thinking he had picked up a few pretty good pieces of collectibles, Uncle Guan looked at He Yukai speechlessly after the appraisal. After all, I have taught you my notes, so how can you tell me about your eyesight?
He can answer questions about basic knowledge and the contents of his notes fluently, but why is he so bad when it comes to practice?

You brought the item to me to have a look. I was quite proud of myself at that time, and I thought you had finally made some progress.

As a result, only one piece of porcelain was authentic, and it was from a folk kiln during the Yongzheng period.

I'm angry at him for not fighting back. He went out and embarrassed me. How dare he take out something from a folk kiln?

The others are imitations from the Republic of China. It’s a pity that he said he had already mastered the basics not long ago.

He Yukai couldn't stand Uncle Guan's look of poor qualifications and left in shame.

No, I can't give up.

In this day and age, there is nothing else to do, so I just need to go to work and take care of daily affairs.

I have worked so hard to develop a hobby for myself, I can't just give up like this.

He Yukai is not a person who gives up easily. He fails most of the time because he did not pay enough tuition fees. Yes, that must be the case.

When I returned to the middle courtyard, I didn't see the children. By now, the children should have finished their homework.

At least his precious daughter should take He Yu to play in the yard.

I didn’t see any today, and I immediately realized that the children might have gotten into trouble.

Now he should be accepting the teachings of his most loving mother. Strangely enough, the boys in the family are much less of a worry than He Qian, a girl.

My daughter will definitely become a domineering figure in the future.

This kind of scene has happened many times, so there is no need to guess.

It’s okay for boys, but He Yukai and He Yuzhu have quite strict requirements.

It’s different with my daughter, she is spoiled a lot and is prone to getting into trouble, which makes my wife very angry.

He Yukai didn't know how many times he had been blamed, saying that it was all because of him, and now he was lawless.

However, He Yukai thinks his daughter is pretty good. Although she likes to fight, she never bullies the weak.

Although I like to play, I can't resist studying.

No matter how you look at it or feel about it, your daughter is the best.

When she entered the house, she saw her daughter standing pitifully against the wall. He Qian saw that her father had finally arrived, her eyes lit up, and she looked forward to her father's rescue.

I've been looking forward to it for a long time, and finally it's back. It's really not easy.

Of course He Yukai saw the hope in his daughter's eyes and the grievance on the corners of her mouth.

Of course, there is a high probability that he is pretending, but He Yukai just falls for it. How can you reason with him?

Cai Wenqing, expressionless, sat at the table, reading a book and drinking tea.

He Yukai was in trouble. Cai Wenqing must have seen him. This attitude was obviously a warning to him. If you interfere with my daughter's discipline today, will you try?

In the past few years, the couple sometimes don’t even need to explain in words, they can guess what the other person wants to express.

He Yukai shrugged and spread his hands, giving his daughter a helpless look.

When He Qian saw her father's action, she immediately made a gesture, which was just a thumbs down!

At this moment, He Yu's cute little eyes saw He Yukai and she rushed over with a happy smile.

"Uncle, uncle, you are back"

He Yukai picked up He Yu and rubbed He Yu's little face affectionately.

"Xiaoyu, do you miss your uncle?"

"You can think about it, you can think about it"

"Have you been good today? Did you listen to your mother?"

My daughter is growing up gradually. Now looking at the young He Yu, her cute appearance, my mood instantly improves.

He held He Yu and let her sit on his lap.

"Xiao Yu, tell uncle how your sister made your aunt angry. I feel scared when I see uncle."

He Yukai's eyes turned, implying Cai Wenqing.

"Uncle, I'm telling you in secret. My sister had a fight at school, and my aunt has been angry for a long time. She didn't even hug me today."

He Yu seemed to be talking quietly, and everyone in the room could hear it.

He Qian made a face at He Yu, and Cai Wenqing couldn't hold it in any longer after hearing the cute voice.

"Xiao Yu, your mother was holding you and you didn't let go. How could I have the time to hold you? I am so sad to be wronged by you."

When it comes to amusing children, Cai Wenqing is a professional.

He Yu's little head paused, his eyes rolled around, and he immediately struggled to stop He Yukai from holding him, and ran over to climb up Cai Wenqing's legs.

It is obvious that he is a man of quick wit and has been a man of great intelligence since he was a child.

"Aunt, hug me."

Although she is young, she is just as clever as He Qian. Her aunt is in charge of the candies in the house, so she cannot let her aunt feel that she dislikes her.

"Flattery"

He Qian was muttering there, and looking at He Yu's expression, it was clear that she didn't know why. It was in vain that I was so nice to you.

"Aunt, my sister called me a flatterer, what is a flatterer?"

He Yu rolled her eyes and said, "Sister, I'm not someone who can be bullied."

You dare to scold me? Let your aunt punish you.

Cai Wenqing's face froze. How could he explain this?

"Xiao Qian, I'm going to ask you to sit there and reflect on your mistakes. You still have time to scold your sister. Your time will be extended by half an hour."

He Qian was originally looking at her mother with gloating eyes. How was she going to explain to her sister who was asking a million questions? She was just about to watch the fun.

I didn’t expect to be discovered by my own mother, and the time was extended by half an hour. Xiaoyu, you are so cruel. Her smile froze on her face.

Just at this moment, the sound of nature was heard, and He Bing and the others came back from Grandpa Li's place. The meal meant the punishment was over.

This is the rule that He Qian has summed up in the past two years. Whenever she is punished, the meal ends as soon as dinner begins.

"Uncle, is the meal ready? I'm starving."

"Yes, Dad! Are you seated?"

Just at this moment He Bing, He Xiao and He Jiang ran in rashly, and the doting and kindness on He Yukai's face disappeared.

"When will you three be able to be more steady? You are so reckless and sweaty, why don't you go out and wash yourself? How many times have I told you to wash your hands before eating?"

"eccentric"

"that is"*2;

The three He Bing brothers had already witnessed the favoritism towards He Yukai. He Qian and He Yu could do anything with a smile on their faces, but it was different for the three of them.

No matter whether the mistake was big or small, what they feared most was that He Yukai would pull the three of them aside and lecture them on moral principles, as his eloquence was even better than that of the teacher.

The problem is that you still have to sit upright, as the saying goes, stand like a pine, sit like a bell, and walk like the wind.

This is my dad’s requirement, there are no exceptions, otherwise the time to reason will be extended indefinitely.

Cai Wenqing was so angry that he laughed, Lou Xiao'e was not much better, and only He Yu was still in a daze.

What are you talking about? Uncle is so nice, why are you partial to him?

He Yukai, who is hypocritical, has always been criticized by his three brothers. It's not that He Yukai is hypocritical in life and treats everyone equally in food, clothing and other expenses. It's mainly because he is strict with the three brothers in normal times and he wants the two girls to be with him.

He Yuzhu loved both men and women equally, but gradually things began to change.

Other families have boys who are ambitious, but the He family is just the opposite. They are very strict with their boys.

If Cai Wenqing and Lou Xiaoe were not exactly opposite, then

Cai Wenqing was strict with He Qian, but not so strict with the three brothers. Sometimes he even encouraged them to be naughty and have fun.

Cai Wenqing always said that if boys are not naughty, they will have no future.

If He Qian acted naughty, she would inevitably be lectured by Cai Wenqing.

The reason is that girls should be quiet and gentle, but unfortunately He Qian has nothing to do with quiet and gentle.

Lou Xiao'e couldn't see it for the time being, after all, He Yu was still young, and it was not time for him to receive strict education.

“It’s time to eat.”

The one helping in the kitchen today is He Yushui. That's right, among the three women in the family, He Yuzhu doesn't allow them to cook. That's because the children dislike them and only like to eat the food cooked by He Yuzhu.

Cai Wenqing and Lou Xiaoye were very hurt when they heard this. Which woman doesn't cook? But there is a chef at home, and the children have become picky eaters. Being despised, they had no choice but to become kitchen helpers.

So the three women decided to help in the kitchen, one day each.

When He Qian heard her second uncle calling her to eat, her eyes lit up. She had finally waited until dinner time came. If she didn't eat soon, her calves would start to tremble.

My mom was really angry today. It’s all because of Teacher Ran. Am I still your cutest student?

Is she still your favorite student? I'm not a bully, but you still complained to mom. That's too much.

"Come and have dinner. You can talk about your affairs after dinner. You are not ladylike at all."

Cai Wenqing spoke to He Qian with a disdainful tone, saying that if you didn't know, you would think she was a stepmother.

When He Qian heard Cai Wenqing's words, she immediately came over, with the word "happy" almost written on her face.

Cai Wenqing was also puzzled. It was impossible that he had given birth to the wrong daughter. Why was she different from himself?

"My dear daughter, how did you succeed in making your mother so angry? Tell me."

He Yukai looked at his daughter with glee, he really couldn't understand why he could successfully arouse Cai Wenqing's anger every time.

"Dad, it's fine that you didn't dare to speak up to help your precious daughter when she was punished, but now you are gloating over her misfortune. That's too much."

He Qian looked at her father unhappily. He is so afraid of his wife. Is this still the tall and mighty father in my mind?
In front of his mother, he is very timid and is no longer the mighty and domineering father.

He was full of domineering attitude in the whole hospital meeting, but he instantly wilted when facing the tigress.

"I haven't figured out what you did wrong, how can I plead for you?"

He Yukai is a professional and he will not admit that he is a coward.

"When you eat, just eat well and don't grumble. Don't talk while you eat and don't talk while you sleep. Don't you understand?"

Cai Wenqing felt unhappy watching the two people interacting. They had clearly agreed that he would be stricter with his daughter and you would be stricter with your son, and they should cooperate in education.

Cooperation does not mean just ignoring it. You have no bottom line towards your daughter. Is this really okay? The father and daughter immediately calmed down after hearing what Cai Wenqing said.

"Do you know you were wrong?"

After dinner, Cai Wenqing looked at He Qian. It seemed that he was not going to give up until He Qian knew her mistake.

"Got it, Mom."

He Qian is a man of insight and is willing to stop being stubborn. Her father is unreliable, so she should just admit her mistake honestly!

Otherwise, I will be punished again. It’s still early to go to bed. A hero never suffers a loss in front of him.

"Talk about it"

Cai Wenqing obviously would not let He Qian get away with it, and he had to let her speak it out herself.

"I shouldn't have started the fight. As the class monitor, I should have resolved disputes between classmates in a timely manner.

If you see a fight, you should ask the teacher to handle it."

He Qian said that, but she was very dissatisfied in her heart. Why couldn't she fight? Should she just stand by and do nothing when she saw the senior students bullying her class?
The more He Yukai listened, the more confused he became. What did the senior grades mean by bullying them?

"He Bing, tell me what's going on."

He Yukai asked He Bing to repeat what happened. He wanted to know the whole story. He absolutely could not tolerate his child being bullied by older students.

"Dad, today senior students bullied our classmates, and my sister was the first to rush forward. When the classmates saw my sister rushing forward, they couldn't hold back, and in the end our class ganged up on the seniors, and finally we were separated by Teacher Ran."

He Bing briefly explained to He Yukai what had happened, and it turned out that his father didn't know what had happened.

"Dong, you little brat, what else do you know? Did you two protect your sister?"

This is the key point. My daughter has not suffered any loss, nor is she the one at fault. The key point is whether the children can look after each other.

"Dad (uncle), of course we will protect He Qian (sister)"

The kids immediately replied that if they hadn't helped, fried pork with bamboo shoots would have been inevitable.

"Well, the men of the He family must remember to protect He Qian and He Yu at all times. Did you three hear that?"

"heard it"

He Yukai looked at the three men with satisfaction.

He Yukai saw that Cai Wenqing had almost finished scolding, so he interrupted and let the matter end. That was enough.

There was nothing wrong with what the child did, but Cai Wenqing was just trying to make He Qianwen quieter, so he was very annoyed about the physical attack.

"Wife, it's enough. The children know about it. It's not a loss anyway."

He Yukai looked at the still angry Cai Wenqing and tried to comfort him, saying that too much is as bad as too little. The next time he was bullied, it would be a big deal if he didn't dare to fight back or tell his family.

"But we can't do it. They have been practicing martial arts since they were young. What if they beat up other people's children?"

Cai Wenqing's worries are not without reason.

"Sister-in-law, if you ask me, Xiaoqian did nothing wrong. Children like that must be severely punished. Who knows how many children have been bullied? Our children have the ability to punish the strong and help the weak. Can't they just stand by and watch?"

"Wife, what Zhuzi said makes sense. Even though the children are young, they can still develop problems if they are beaten. The children don't know how to control their severity. Look at the children in the juvenile detention center. Are they all very old? Many of the things they do are outrageous!"

He Yukai supports the children as long as they don't bully the weak. Bullying the weak is a taboo for He Yukai.

"All of you, remember this: from now on, you must always avoid bullying the weak and punish the strong to support the weak.

The purpose of us asking you to perform continuous skills is not only to enable you to protect yourself, but also to protect the weak when appropriate.

"Remember to be careful when you strike, don't hurt anyone, understand?"

The reason behind this needs to be made clear. We cannot bully others, but we cannot stand idly by when we see injustice.

"understood"

"Wash yourself and go to bed"

"Wife, don't be angry. Think about it, those people in the juvenile detention center are all children, right? Stealing, robbery, even murder, what kind of things can't they do?
Taking today's incident as an example, if He Qian had not taken the lead and rushed forward, the children from the senior grades might have injured the children's classmates.

When children are still growing, some injuries may leave hidden dangers and even affect their lives."

He Yukai shuddered when he thought of the children in the juvenile detention center. Such young children dared to commit robbery or even murder.

The fact that the child is young is not an excuse. Even though the child is young, if the adults in the family do not discipline him/her well, he/she may do inhumane things.

He Yukai has always taught the He family's children not to bully the weak, but they must never swallow their anger when they are bullied by others.

If they can't solve it, they must tell me and can't hide it.

Cai Wenqing also understood this logic. The steel mill was so large that there was a lot of things to do.

There were children of factory employees who broke the law. As Cai Wenqing's work progressed, he became familiar with many of the women in the factory.

It's not uncommon for a child to be beaten by other children and sent to the hospital to ask her for help.

I just feel that it is better for girls to be more ladylike, unlike my own child who is so impetuous every day.

Cai Wenqing thought about it and realized that if something like that happened in front of him, he couldn’t just stand by and watch.

Forget it, as long as the children study hard and stay healthy, it’s fine. You can’t force them to do so.

“You’re right, the child is not at fault, but look at Xiaoqian, how can a girl fight with others?

If what happened today happened to He Bing and He Xiao, I would still praise them."

"Sister-in-law, Xiaoqian is the squad leader, so it is her duty."

Lou Xiao'e was also comforting Cai Wenqing from the side.

Regarding today's incident, Lou Xiao'e admired He Qian's behavior. When she was in school, she also liked to take care of unfair things, but He Qian used her abilities to do so, while she took advantage of the power of her family.

The matter ended like this, but the children's hearts were far from over. The He Yukai brothers actually knew the parent of the child who was bullied today. His name was Wang Yuejin, and he was the son of Wang Dana who had challenged the He brothers at that time.

Wang Dana is such a powerful person, but his son is very honest. He only cares about studying and is not good at socializing.

The cause was that Banggeng saw others holding pastries and wanted some. After being rejected, Banggeng called the senior students to deal with Wang Yuejin.

To put it bluntly, it was Bang Geng's fault. No one in the class wanted to play with Bang Geng, so during extracurricular time he would follow a few fifth-grade students around and act like a little brother, specifically bullying the honest kids.

Wang Yuejin is the target of bullying by Banggeng. He studies well and has plenty of snacks, so he is targeted by Banggeng!

After Banggeng the thief's reputation spread, no one in the compound or among his classmates wanted to play with him.

After school, he played with the kids from other compounds in the alley. When he went to school, he sat at the back and didn’t like to study.

He Qian spent her spare time following the senior students who didn't like to study. Thinking of this, she decided to warn Bang Geng not to bully others, otherwise she would not ignore it.

Bang Geng's situation was indeed developing in a bad direction. He could go home to eat and eat good food, and he was the center of the family.

When I got to school, no one wanted to play. I went from being at the center to being on the edge, and you can imagine the psychological gap.

Maybe he doesn't want to bully others, he just wants to get the attention of his classmates.

This situation will definitely not work without guidance.

Unfortunately, there is no educational psychology now, and there is no one to guide. Qin Huairu does not understand this truth, so he can only let the stick plot continue.

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(End of this chapter)